Navigation: This page ''
---> List of Opinion pages ---> Main Home Page ---> Author. About page. Contact.

On Marriage

Some initial thoughts jotted down by A.B. 20 July 2018

Artists treat marriage as a prison.
Yet is not marriage an artform?
    - that everyone can shape,
        rich or poor,
        strong or weak,
        arty or not?

But there's another narrative about marriage -
    One that's seldom spoken
    because it doesn't suit the spirit of the age.
A narrative of nobility,
of poetry and art form
    that two people construct together,
    giving to and for each other as they do.
Making something meaningful -
    something with joy and memory,
    something that lasts.
Marriage is worked at,
    not just received.
Marriage is worked at -
    not a ready-made concrete cast.

Marriage is a building
    a shelter and mansion
    that all may construct
        work on,
        beautify, and

Marriage is open to all
    whether clever or stupid
    right or left
as a gift and artform
    of university opportunity
a set of shared values
a life lived together
    the longer together the deeper it becomes
    and the more bautiful
even when there is discord.

A shelter for the outsider
a pillar of strength
    for the community
    - supremely worthwhile.

See also:

To send comments, queries, suggestions, please fill in the following and click 'Submit':

Please put dashes -------- in this box so I can detect your message among spam:

If you would like a reply,
please enter an email address:
and a name by which I might address you:

Thank you. This will send an email to me, to which I will endeavour to respond.

About This Page

This page, ' .html', is an Opinion Page put up by Andrew Basden that aim to stimulate ideas for discussion. Contact details.

Copyright (c) Andrew Basden at all the dates below. But you may use this material subject to certain conditions.

Written on the Amiga with Protext.

Created: 20 July 2018 Last updated: 27 April 2019 added second verse about another narrative, new .end. 25 June 2020 25 June 2020 changed copyright file.